13 June 2018

MIND...and RELATIONSHIP

Usually and normally we live either with Open or with Close mind. (few extraordinary live with growth mind too).

Few big differences between these two   -open and close mind- are....

Open mind prefers to help others over self help.
Close mind expects more help than helping others.

Open mind is open to suggestions.
Close mind is close to suggestions but auto suggest a lot.

Open mind can agree to disagree.
Close mind doesn't want to be challenged.

Open mind asks questions as it knows that it may be wrong.
Close mind makes statements irrespective of it's being right or wrong.

Open mind is empathetic to understand others.
Close mind wants to be understood and noticed.

Open mind is God fearing.
Close mind is lack of a deep sense of humility.

Open mind understands self first and then others too.
Close mind mostly misunderstands others and understands a fraction of self.

Open mind finds disagreements, differences, discussions/arguments as an opportunity to Learn and a tool to help in better decisions making to improve quality of life.
Close mind considers these as threats and a tool to score over others even if life suffers.

Open mind is often broad yet assertive.
Close mind is mostly imperative and meek.

Open mind collects facts to make decisions.
Close mind makes decisions prior to knowing the relevant information.

Open mind is designed to search the best answer.
Close mind believe its answer is the best.

Open mind knows that during a conflict one or other could be wrong.
Close mind finds other is wrong.

Open mind is like a proud Jack who lifts.
Close mind is like a too proud Pincher who pinches.

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  • A Relationship between two Open-Minds is worthy of long term association and should be nourished besides all odds as it sure will make life beautiful and prosperous.
  • A Relationship between two Close-Minds is just OK if they can be happy by merely floating over the surface.
  • A Relationship between an Open-Mind and a Close-Mind is bit complex and tricky.
Here open mind is expected to dominate and close mind cooperative.Reverse of this arrangement where Open-Mind isn't cooperative is HELL IN THE LIFE.
(Let's pray no one suffers this including ME)

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Human existence has evolved from......
Raw and Primitive Close-Mind needed for SURVIVAL to......
Refined and Advance Open-Mind for ASCEND to.......
Pure and Divine Growth-Mind for TRANSCEND.


Harsch Kumar Lall
Executive Leadership and Learning Coach
www.nectarjoy.com


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